Coincidently today happens to be Valentine’s Day. The day of love.
When I was younger, the Valentin’s day was all about mushy romance. Greeting, cards, balloons, chocolates, roses and the works. My husband sent me red roses without fail.
However, today it is just a normal day. In the morning cook called saying she wont be coming and I sighed with relief, that there were leftovers from last night, and I didn’t have to cook. Ideally I should have jumped with joy and go out for a drive and a meal.
In the evening , I am attending a webinar from my Counselling master class. I told my husband that we should go for a dinner in the evening and he said he is too full from the lunch and its a bad idea. To make up he said we will go tomorrow instead.
Does that mean we are out of love? Absolute not! Just that our ideas for romance has changed. We have lived together long enough to know we care for each and we will go to any lengths to make each other happy. That day just need not be Valentine’s day!
It can be any day ! Even today!
Its just 3 Pm as I am writing this and we still have the rest of the day. You never know ! We will just get up and do something that screams “ You are my valentine!”